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W1：It's like I have no past.
W2:Of course you have a past.And with time you'please feel more and more connected to it，and to them.Open and close，please.We cling to memories as if they define us，but they really don't.What we do is what defines us.

W1：我好像没有过去。
W2：你当然有过去。你慢慢会觉得自己也有牵挂。张开和紧握手掌。我们紧抓着记忆，仿佛它能赋予我们人格，其实并不然。我们的行为才能赋予我们人格。

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v. 给……下定义，解释；阐明，使清楚；标明……界限，明确显出……轮廓；是……的特征，为……的特色

1.1 及物动词: 下定义、解释、说明
The Convention Against Torture defines torture as any act that inflicts severe pain or suffering, physical or mental.
《反酷刑条约》把酷刑定义为任何造成严重身心疼痛和受苦的行为。

1.2 及物动词: 界定、限定、确定
We need to define the task ahead very clearly我们需要明确今后的任务。
I feel that I was defined by my job.我感觉自己被工作限制了。